Saturday, May 16, 2020

2020 The year we stopped recognizing one another



The effects of the Coronavirus go beyond the huge numbers of victims who lost their lives with no reason whatsoever, with no purpose and obviously before they could do many things they were planning the year before, the month before, and maybe even the week before.

The effects go beyond the unnecessary suffering of millions of people who were in pain laying on hospital beds or screaming at their homes not knowing what hit them, and the cries and heartache of those who watched what was happening to their loved ones, not being able to do anything to help relieve their pain. The effects caused a great deal of damage to our civilization as a whole.

The closed stores and restaurants and coffee shops, the total lockdown in cities that never knew what that word even meant only days before it happened, the empty schools and universities and public parks and squares that were points of gathering and learning and playing and simply enjoying a sunny day for each and every person, no matter where they lived or what language they spoke, or which religion they believed or did not believe in, all were results that none of us could have even imagined in their wildest nightmares, and even though we have seen similar scenes in a number of films, we always thought they were only a crazy man’s fantasy.

The point that we are forced to wear masks all the time, harmed us in more than one of our basic human elements; the ability to recognize each other’s faces, and to know whom you are talking to, to relate to his/her facial expressions, to understand what they mean even without words being spoken, simply by looking at their face, to understand if someone is happy, sad, angry, calm, excited, or even bitter; this is also gone. One of the main instruments of human interaction and relationships just disappeared, now suddenly we cannot express ourselves by using gestures, we cannot smile at anything, we cannot smile at all, and if we do, no one is there to see it, to interpret our movement of the lips, to understand that we are talking seriously or making an innocent joke. The famous phrase: “lovers understand each other without words” is gone forever. You must use different methods to recognize your brother and sister, your friend, your colleague, and maybe your parents and spouse; methods other than how ‘they look’, you must know what they wear, how they walk, what their hair styles are like each time you meet them. All of a sudden, the spoken language is, again, the only way of communication; explicit direct words, are how everyone else can understand what you mean when you want to communicate anything.

The virus didn’t only put entire nations to their knees, and ruin what human kind has achieved in hundreds of years in terms of interpersonal relations and community life traditions of cooperation and “lending a hand” to each other whenever needed, it also taught us an important lesson, it showed us how insignificant and small we are; it made us see that no matter how big the weapons we built, and which plans we had against one another, no one is safe from the wrath of nature and the rage of our planet.